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Practical guidance to help you understand Letter of Wishes, what to include, and how to leave your thoughts, preferences and personal messages for the people you care about.

25 July 2026

Should you ask for donations instead of flowers?

Learn why some people choose donations instead of funeral flowers, how to include this preference in your Letter of Wishes, and what to consider.

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25 July 2026

How to write a letter to be read after you're gone

Learn how to write a personal letter for your loved ones, including what to say, what memories to share, and how a Letter of Wishes can help.

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25 July 2026

How to write down your funeral wishes: a simple guide

Learn how to write down your funeral wishes, including service preferences, music, readings, flowers, donations and other farewell details.

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25 July 2026

How a Letter of Wishes can prevent family disputes after you're gone

Learn how a Letter of Wishes can help reduce family disagreements by explaining decisions, sharing your intentions and providing personal guidance.

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25 July 2026

Letter of Wishes vs Will: what's the difference and why you need both

Understand the difference between a Letter of Wishes and a Will, how they work together, and why many families choose to prepare both.

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25 July 2026

How to organise your online accounts and subscriptions before it's too late

Learn how to organise your online accounts, subscriptions and digital information so your family can manage your digital life more easily.

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25 July 2026

Planning for a dependent family member: what to put in a Letter of Wishes

Learn what to include in a Letter of Wishes when someone depends on your care, including routines, support needs, preferences and future guidance.

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25 July 2026

The practical checklist your family will need when you pass away

A simple checklist of practical information your family may need after you die, including documents, keys, contacts, household details and more.

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25 July 2026

What happens to your digital accounts when you die?

Learn what happens to your digital accounts after you die and how a Letter of Wishes can help your family manage online accounts, subscriptions and data.

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25 July 2026

What happens to your pets if you die, and how a Letter of Wishes can help

Learn what happens to your pets when you die and how a Letter of Wishes can help you leave care instructions, routines and important details.

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25 July 2026

What to say in a final message to your children

Learn what to include in a final message to your children, from memories and life lessons to words of love, encouragement and support.

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25 July 2026

Where should you keep your Letter of Wishes?

Learn where to keep your Letter of Wishes, who should know about it, and how to make sure your family can find it when it matters most.

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